Can You Get Paid to Care for a Friend, Not a Relative?

Yes. Michigan's Home Help self-direction option isn't limited to family — a trusted friend, neighbor, or other non-relative can be the paid caregiver, at the same $17.13/hr direct rate as anyone else.

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The core idea behind self-direction is that the Medicaid recipient chooses who provides their care — and Michigan doesn't require that person to be related by blood or marriage. A longtime friend, a neighbor who's been helping informally, or another trusted adult can enroll as the paid individual provider.

Non-relative caregivers are allowed

Beyond the two groups Home Help explicitly excludes — spouses, and parents of minor children being cared for — the program is largely relationship-agnostic. What matters is that the care recipient trusts and has chosen this specific person, and that the person can pass the standard background check and complete CHAMPS enrollment.

How this differs from being a family caregiver

Practically, nothing changes about pay, hours, or the EVV requirement. The one place it can come up is during the MDHHS-5534 assessment — the caseworker may ask more questions to confirm the relationship and the arrangement's stability, simply because it's less immediately obvious than a parent-child relationship. That's a normal part of the process, not a red flag.

What MDHHS looks for in a non-relative provider

The same things it looks for in any provider: reliability, the ability to meet the documented care needs, and a clean background check. There's no requirement to prove a certain length of friendship or provide character references beyond what's part of standard enrollment.

Friend caregiver vs. licensed agency

Agency employee wages depend on the employer’s written offer. An agency reimbursement rate is not an employee wage. Compare reimbursement with caregiver wages.

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Can You Get Paid to Care for a Friend, Not a Relative — Quick Answers

No. Aside from spouses and parents of minor children, who are excluded, Home Help's self-direction option allows the Medicaid recipient to choose any trusted adult as their paid caregiver — including a friend or neighbor who is not related to them.

No, the process is the same: the care recipient completes the MDHHS-5534 assessment, hours are approved, and the chosen caregiver — related or not — enrolls as an individual provider through CHAMPS.

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CarePay Michigan is an independent information and referral resource. MDHHS determines Home Help eligibility and authorized care. Official program guidance · 2026 provider rates · EVV rules and exemptions.