You can choose who provides the care

Home Help's self-direction option means the Medicaid recipient — not MDHHS — picks the caregiver. Here's exactly who qualifies, who doesn't, and what it means to be a "recipient-as-employer."

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Who can be a paid caregiver

Under self-direction, the Medicaid recipient (or their authorized representative) can choose almost anyone they trust as their caregiver:

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Adult children
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Siblings
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Grandchildren
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Friends and neighbors
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Any qualified unrelated individual willing to enroll as an individual provider

Who generally cannot be paid

Two categories are excluded under this program's rules:

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Spouses — cannot be paid caregivers for their husband or wife under Home Help specifically.
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Parents of minor children — generally excluded from being paid to care for their own minor child under this program.

If a spouse is the primary person providing care, it's worth asking about Michigan's MI Choice Waiver, which has different rules and does allow spouses to be paid under its own self-direction option — though MI Choice is capped and can carry a regional waitlist.

The "recipient-as-employer" model

Here's the part that surprises people: in the self-directed option, the Medicaid recipient is technically the caregiver's employer — not MDHHS, and not the caregiver themselves. That has real implications. The recipient (or their representative) is generally involved in:

  • Choosing who provides care
  • Setting the day-to-day schedule
  • Being the point of contact if something changes about their needs

A Fiscal Intermediary can help process the payroll and tax paperwork this employer relationship creates, without the FI itself providing any hands-on care — see our FI vs. provider agency breakdown for the full picture.

What this means day to day

EVV applies unless an exemption is approved. Live-in and certain other arrangements may be exempt. Individual caregivers must also continue ESV or PSV service verification. Check current MDHHS EVV instructions.

Caring for more than one person

If you have more than one family member who qualifies — say, both parents — you can potentially be approved as the paid caregiver for each of them individually, as long as each person's own assessment and approval is in place. Hours and pay are tracked separately per care recipient.

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Searching for a consumer-directed program? Our CDPAP terminology guide for Michigan explains the official Home Help name.

CarePay Michigan is an independent information and referral resource. MDHHS determines Home Help eligibility and authorized care. Official program guidance · 2026 provider rates · EVV rules and exemptions.